I’d want to make sure I done what I could to get him off. Do people in real life come up against that mind set? I think I’d be pretty gutted if I found out he went home and got off after I either fucked him or got a blowjob off him. I don’t really know what to think when I read online where people say “it’s all about the top and the top doesn’t give a fuck about the bottom getting off”. I consider it a two way street, we’re both in it and it shouldn’t, in my mind be about any one person getting the satisfaction.
Similar, I’d be gutted and fell like I wasn’t satisfying the guy if I couldn’t get him off. Personally, same as you say, to me yeah I want to get off and I’d be really disappointed if I hooked up and didn’t get off, don’t mean to sound shallow.
I totally want to appreciate the way each person I’m involved with is feeling. I appreciate you letting me know what your thoughts / feelings are about it.
